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Old 03-06-2014, 05:40 AM
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Default Re: Multiple rare BioShock and Irrational Games items for sale

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Originally Posted by MortalMonday View Post
Let me be clear here, I feel horrible for both the buyer and the seller. As a fellow collector, I feel the buyer's pain. He wanted that thing so badly, and now I'm sure he's in tears. It's terrible! On the other hand, I can understand the sellers need to void the sale. You, as a buyer, should know better than to bid on something, if you can't follow through promptly; or at least, as a buyer, you should first contact the seller and mention any extenuating circumstance that may preclude your ability to promptly finalize the sale, and then ask if it's OK to bid.

Like I said, it's a tough all-around circumstance, and I can sympathize with both sides. Ultimately though, the seller has to do what's best for him, so I can for sure see why the deal had to be canceled.
I don't know the exact parameters of what happened, but I do not sympathize for the buyer in these kinds of situations whatsoever. Firstly, winning something you can't pay for, regardless of how much you want it is bad for everyone - the seller doesn't get his money, the second placed bidder who might have paid for it and won it for much less doesn't get it (if he had won, then the guy who couldn't pay was just raising the price for no reason), and the value for said item then becomes higher than it should be for everyone else who would like to own it.

Secondly, I'm not usually someone to tell people how to spend their money, but if you're ever thinking "I'm not really sure I can afford this" about a near $4000 gaming collectible...you probably shouldn't buy it. imo.